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Christian Domestic Discipline

Heavenly pain for strange bedfellows

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  • First Found: Pre-Internet; Mid-2000's (on the internet)
 


Summary

Few subcultures are so divisive that they irritate conservative Catholics and atheists, concerned mothers and feminists, as well as many others.

Bizarre even by internet standards, the Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD) subculture celebrates marriages with dominant husbands and submissive wives. Wives are expected to be dutiful and obey their husbands' orders. If they don't comply, the husband is obligated to discipline them. What's interesting about CDD is its favored form of punishment: spanking. Hot, bare bottom spanking. They literally emphasize the importance of making contact with the flesh, not spanking over fabric.

It is hard to discern the motivations of spouses in such relationships. Some may truly believe that wives should be subservient, in which an abusive relationship may seem unavoidable. Others may be seeking religious justification for their fetishes.

It does not seem that clear-cut, however, and there may be a mixture of religious conviction and an awareness of kinky impulses. Christian spanking blogs and websites can also be difficult to decipher. They seem to vary from female-oriented erotica to archaic religious discussions on the duties of spouses, both husband and wife, and these usually overlap (but it's mostly erotica).

Overall, it appears the spousal discipline and controlling/submissive roles are sexual in nature. Many sites openly acknowledge the eroticism of such behaviors. Without the religious themes, this would be easier to describe as BDSM.

CDD Basics

  • The husband is in charge of the household. It is his responsibility to correct his wife's behavior.
  • Aside from spankings, punishment can include time-outs, loss of allowance, and loss of "computer/TV time" (seriously).
  • The relationship must be consensual. Both partners must agree to it.
    • There can be "nonconsensual consent," which sounds like roleplaying or a loophole for abuse.
  • Children are not involved, unless you want to get v&.


CDD/DD terms

  • AAAC: "Avoid at all costs" spanking, see punishment spankings
  • Bedroom time: a punishment in which the wife must stay in the bedroom for a time specified by the husband
  • Bratting: when a women intentionally misbehaves because she wants a spanking (you know why)
  • Corner time: a punishment in which the wife must stand in a corner for a time specified by the husband
  • Discipline spanking: see punishment spanking
  • Head of household or HOH: the husband
  • Maintenance spanking: periodic spankings intended to reinforce the relationship roles (remind the wife of her place) and to discourage the need for punishment spankings
  • Play spanking: spanking for fun, AKA "Good Girl" spanking
  • Punishment spanking: spanking given when the wife is "out of line," the harshest form of spanking
  • Warm up spanking: a lighter, shorter spanking to precede a heavier spanking, used to lessen bruising


CDD/DD and eroticism

Note: Quote links may be NSFW.

 
“ 		 
Since he’d skipped maintenance [spankings] that week, TC decided to do that first. As he began to spank me, things once again began to fall into place for me. There was a peaceful sense of security, of being “under” him in a positive way.
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—[1]

 
“ 		 
Since Sunday’s maintenance, I have once again been surprised at just how effective Domestic Discipline is. Almost immediately after the spanking, I felt “right” with TC once again. I’ve grabbed time each day to cuddle with my hubby, and am once again enjoying time with him. The walls have disappeared, effectively blasted away by that darn loopy johnny (well, it DOES hurt!).
  		„
 

—[2]

 
“ 		 
Bedroom submission. So you’ve given your body to him with blanket consent, but did you really mean it? Be ready to be awakened in the middle of the night on a night you have to get up very early, just so he can see if you will keep your word. How about a b***j*b right before you need to be somewhere? Or doing that one thing you really don’t like and being enthusiastic about it even though you did it yesterday too. My husband tested in this department for quite a while before he realized I really do want to serve him in this way.
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—[3]

 
“ 		 
Trying to convince a husband to spank for DD if he has refused (or will refuse) to spank erotically is invariably a recipe for unhappiness on both partners’ parts.
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—[4]

 
“ 		 
Whilst we recognise by its very nature this can be an erotic subject, we will keep this website as clean and wholesome as possible.
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—[5]

 
“ 		 
Maintenance sessions most often take place at bed time, and for many DD couples this means that sex frequently or always occurs right after a spanking. Some DD wives report being aroused after a spanking, but most claim it's a result of "feeling loved by their husband" rather than the spanking itself.
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Origins

The origins of CDD are ostensibly the bible and the romantic idea of "old-fashioned" marriages, but the most important source is probably sex. Like many odd subcultures, the internet has benefited CDD members by providing them with information, advice, encouragement, and a wide variety of sex toys.

The biblical justifications are up for debate. Many Christian commentators seem more upset about using the bible to justify inequality between spouses than using it to spice up one's love life. Likewise, most feminists are disgusted.

Quite a few CDD and DD blogs have sprouted up, as well as a few sites that serve as general references. One of the main reference sites, ChristianDomesticDiscipline.com, "CDD," started in 2006, doesn't seem to take itself too seriously. Look at their disclaimer:

"This website, as well as any information presented herein, is intended for purposes of education or entertainment only. Views or opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of ownership or management."

Of course, this may be an attempt to distance themselves from deranged persons that may take things a bit too far. Another site, christiandd.com, "Christian Domestic Discipline," is operated by wives in CDD relationships, including one who claims to have written erotic spanking stories for years.

Current status

Active. There is an overlap between more religious-oriented and less religious DD blogs, and even general spanking enthusiasts' blogs. It is well within The Twilight Zone of the internet.


Facts

  • CDD fiction is primarily written by women. Like this.

Images

The "I Love You" spoon, with hearts, a smiley, and Chinese characters (?).

Videos

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Angie the Anti-Theist is upset? (NSFW audio)

Related Pages

Fundamentalism

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